Buddhist tomb

Grave of Long Xuong Ngoc (1928–1991)

In Vietnam, “folk religion” is widespread. It is a complex blend of indigenous practices, ancestor worship, and elements of Taoism and Buddhism. It plays a crucial role in shaping the values, traditions, and cultural identity of the Vietnamese community. Ancestor worship is particularly important in folk beliefs and reflects the cultural emphasis on family ties and respect for elders.

Buddhists believe that a person’s energies—and thus their spirit—gradually leave the dying body. Families ensure that only positive forces accompany their loved one during the dying process. The specific practices involved vary depending on the Buddhist tradition and the region where the believers live.

Monks and family members gather at the home of the deceased and pray together for rebirth. To avoid hindering or blocking the deceased’s journey, no one is allowed to touch the body during this time. It is important that the spirit be able to leave the body in complete peace. No one should hold the deceased back with their emotions. Crying and wailing at the deathbed are therefore forbidden.

Cremation is the most common form of burial. In a Buddhist funeral, the coffin or urn is buried in a plain grave. On certain days, the bereaved visit the grave to commemorate the deceased and leave food and drinks. On the first anniversary of the death, a ceremony is held in honor of the deceased.

In principle, a Buddhist funeral with the appropriate rituals can be held at non-denominational cemeteries.